Love is

Last weekend my friends happen to our little girl were together and play together on the porch. Still as always like the chatter of small children and their looks are playing a game that they call the 'One Family'. Our daughter became a mother, there is a father, there is a child, there is also a grandfather and grandmother. They seemed to appreciate the meaning of love is being in a family. Then out of curiosity we tried to approach them and give them one question.
What is the meaning of love do you think?
Consider what answer we get from them the following, Adiet, 7 years, "Love is when my mother was lying headache (pain) and Dad is busy cooking noodles cooked for me and then made tea for him."
Rella, 6 years, "Love is when Rella was crying and then brother Rella provide some cake that was eaten"
Beautiful, 5 years, "Love is when my mother made coffee craze Mom and Dad feel it in advance to make sure it feels good"
Zackie, 9 years, "Love is when my grandmother who can no longer bend to trim his toenails and then grandfather helped tidy up and even mengecatkannya gentlemen"
Diago, 8 years, "Love is when my mother realized that Dad was sweaty, dirty and smelly but also said it was still better looking than Mike Lewis"
Well, that's what they pass on, love is relative indeed. Those who do not like it call it responsibility. Those who play with it call it a game. Those who do not have it call it a dream. Those who love call it destiny.
Sometimes the Lord who knows best, would give trouble to test mahluknya, sometimes he was hurt, so that lesson can be embedded in the.
If we lose love, then there must be reasons behind it, the reason is sometimes difficult to understand. But we still have to believe that when he took something, he was ready to give a better. Wait for the moment arrived.
Why wait? Because even if we wanted to make a decision, we do not want to rush. Because even though we want quickly, we do not want to carelessly. Because even if we wanted to find the people we love, we do not want to lose our identity in the process of that search.
If you want to run, learn to walk duhulu. If you want to swim, learn to float first. If you want to be loved, learn to love first. All require a process could work as expected, as desired, and all had to wait in the process.
In the end, it's better to wait for the people we want, rather than choosing what is there. Still better to wait for those we love, rather than satisfying themselves with what is there. Still better to wait for the right person, because life is too short to pass up with the wrong choice. Many say the most boring job is menuunggu. But keep in mind "waiting" has a mysterious meaning and purpose behind it.
"Look at the flowers, he did not blossom overnight. Also have to wait " "Rome was not built in a day and night. Also have to wait to see the glory " "Life in the womb for nine months. Also awaiting the birth of love "
Love the great nan continue to grow throughout the lifespan. Most beautiful things in life require a long time and we are not waiting in vain.
While waiting requires a lot of things, faith, courage and hope, wait a promising one thing that no one else can imagine in the end.
And God in every silver lining is his secret, asks us to wait for a very noble reason.
So, what is the meaning of love do you think? Please (:

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Falling in love and having a boyfriend is fun and can make the mood became more alive, more beautiful and certainly more eager to live day by day after. But not all love stories it can go smoothly, there's always that impede or even make a story we love so much harder to be lived. And perhaps the most common is when parents do not agree on our love relationship?Our parents did not want to accept the choice of our hearts and hate people who become our partner.
If you have ever suffered like this, where our love relationships do not get approval from a parent, do not be discouraged once, let not take away the feeling that our parents did not want to see us happy, do not blame them in advance and do not rush to take stepsmay be, it will harm our lives.
When parents do not approve of our relationship, it helps you do more checks and rechek to the problems being faced, and you must be prepared to see and accept the good side and bad side of this issue.
Check Motivation Love Relationships The first time we have to do is know the first few things: what motivation that causes us to choose him as a candidate spouse or boyfriend we? What is the purpose of this build our relationship? What is our purpose was only to vote for him simply "important to have a boyfriend", if let say "Singles are not true", "though more is seen as someone who slang" or "maybe there is another motivation is higher, for example because we want him to be wife or our husband "? By knowing the true motivation of a relationship, we'd better find out if we really love him? or just the love that we feel is just about the sense of wonder moment? Or even that badly again if we vote for him, just like our friends look great because we can get him, that in fact a girl or a boy's dream?
Well, when we already know what the motivation of our love relationships, we are guaranteed will be easier to deal with disapproval from our parents.
Is This Really Love? Once again, ask ourselves, whether we feel this is really love? Emang Are we really care about him? When we fall in love with someone, we will always look at all these things possible and can be done. With the power of love, we can be more excited, what previously seemed impossible becomes possible.
But when suddenly the parents do not agree with our relationship, it will be with our easy to blame them, and assume they do not understand the feelings that we experience.
What motivation of disapproval Parents The next step is to figure out what the motivation behind parental disapproval of our love relationships. Find out the background from the life of our parents and then we compare with the background of our partner, because usually the difference in background is often a major cause of parental disapproval. There are many reasons that can cause parents do not approve of our relationship, and that's all we have to find out what the motivation of those reasons.
If Our Parents Apparently False Parents are also human beings, not always they are always right. If it turns out their disagreements over background because of problems racis (different race, color, etc.), social class, or even differences in occupations (eg, he is less well established than us.)When it's all the reason, it is only fitting we are fighting for our love relationships and not give in and agree with our parents disapproval.
Parents may feel worried if it turns out we love relationship will only make us miserable, or make us socially ostracized from society. And sometimes parents use the "rules" or "social order" the old days, sometimes less relevant to contemporary circumstances.
If it turns out all of this is the cause of disagreement of our parents, it is only logical that we can provide the right arguments on them to keep our love relationship. However disagreements caused by the problem of racism, social class is not justified, although it all comes from our own parents.
If we turned out True Parents Nothing is more familiar with us, other than our parents. Even older people are to know and understand ourselves than our own. And just maybe, because we're blinded by the name of love, to what is seen as the bad side by our parents we just can not realize it.What we see only the good side and the view that love is always beautiful.
We must remember, parents are very fond of us and they want so we can be happy in life. So when they see something is wrong and harmful, in our love relationships, of course they would resolutely reject and not approve of our relationship.
If our people were never heard even know that our partner is a bad behavior, and they were worried we would be harmed by our partner, of course it's good when we try to listen to them, because they might have a point.
If we begin to apply the wild, and our lives begin to chaos, (for example, we began to use illegal drugs, liquor) because of the influence of our girlfriends, parents are certainly strongly disagree with our relationship. And parents also will not approve, if it is during a relationship of love, our college achievement begins to decline, or we start losing our friends and our friends. It's time we stop listening to parents and our love relationships.However, a relationship of love and hurt too much to sacrifice our personal lives, it is something that is not healthy for our survival.
Finding a Way Out As said earlier, love is beautiful and can make life more vibrant and better. When we find that the love that we live nowadays, it really made our lives better, more comfortable, and our girlfriend really care about us and have a positive effect on our lives, naturally we maintain this love affair, even if parents are not agree.
But when the affair began to be felt "endanger" our private lives, it helps us re-think whether we need to maintain this love? It should be remembered well, we do not have to lose our lives just because we fall in love and nurture a relationship. Family, friends and school or our school, is still very important for our lives. Fostering a love affair, does not mean that we should lose it all. When we begin to feel that we begin to lose our lives, we think it's time to end this love affair.
Parents always hope for the best for us, face the disapproval of parents with a cool head and a cooperative attitude. Perhaps they do not like with our boyfriend, but one day they would be able to accept our love affair, if we are able to prove that what we do can make our lives better and more beautiful to live.
Now, before leaf yellow circle, before the remorse that episode diahir dating life, it's good to think about first when love is not condoned by parents, not always the parents were wrong and not always the parents also were true, they just want something that the best course kok to us, perhaps just a different way. All depends on us and pobud berpikit positive.
Congratulations Fall In Love (:

I want mommy to go back

           This is a thrilling true story is a child in China who received high appreciation from the government because otherwise have done "VERY EXTRAORDINARY ACTION."Among the nine recipients of the award, he was the only child who was elected from the 1.4 billion Chinese population. What makes it remarkable is considered it turns out was the attention and devotion to his father, who always work hard and never give up, and have the attitude and words that cause a sense of sympathy. 

Since he was 10 years old this child abandoned by his mother who had died due to not stand living with her husband who was seriously ill and very poor. 

Since then, Zhang Da, thus the name of the boy, live with the father who did not work, can not walk and sickly. By the age he is still far too small to carry this heavy responsibility, but he still struggled. He went on foot through a small forest. Because no breakfast, the journey that he ate the leaves, seeds and fruits which he encountered.Sometimes he tried to eat a type of fungus or the grass, so he knows which ones are acceptable tongue and what does not. Home from school, he worked to divide large stones. Wage of a mason used to buy rice and medicine for his father. Every day he carried his father to the bathroom, wiped and also bathe her father. He bought rice and made to eat his porridge. 

All the others were his father's affairs which do alone. Drugs are expensive and far away places to make medical treatment Zhang Da thinking to find the best way to treat his father. He also learned about drugs through a used book that he bought. He studied how a nurse gives injections. Having felt able, he himself who injected her father. 

When the awards ceremony took place, the host asked what it wants Zhang Da "Is money or other. Here there are many officials, businessmen, also there are hundreds of millions of television viewers, they can and will be ready to help you boy! "But what is said Zhang Da is really surprising to anyone, he simply said," I do not want anything, I just want to my mama back!. " 

The story above is not only touching but also cause admiration. A 10-year-old child can run a heavy responsibility for 5 years. The difficulty of forging the child's life has become a formidable figure of a child and never give up. Zhang Da arguably very rare because it is very different from modern children. Today many children everything is always facilitated by their parents. For reasons unfortunately, parents are always helping his son, even though the child is able to do so. There are children who are in elementary school are fed, and wearing bajupun still be helped. 

Message: 

Potential one child often appears just when he forged difficulty, if the step children always facilitated the creativity and power of his fighting was not going to grow. Learn to be independent when he is ready, not to hurt her but to be ready to face the hard life without parents someday. 

Proverb says, "DO NOT facilitate LIFE TODAY, IF FOR LATER IN THE DAY trouble."